There are so many things that modern women have to worry about. From juggling work and home responsibilities to keeping up with the latest trends, it can be tough to fit everything in. However, that doesn't mean that modern women don't have problems. In fact, there are several common issues that modern women face, such as
Women are underestimated at almost everything, as if it's unusual for them to be good at something. Be it sports, be it jobs, be it anything, women have always had to prove themselves to people to justify whether they deserve what they're getting. The thing that makes it worse is that some women, even today, look for validation from others
Today, if we look around, women are excelling in almost every other field, and some people just can't bear it because of their stupid egos. Women are frequently undervalued in all areas and asked to justify their abilities.
10.If you're good at something, just do it; if you're already doing well, just continue it; we don't need to look for validation from others. You're in that position because you deserve it. You never need to justify it to others, even if they ask for it.
Some common observations I have made after interacting with thousands of women
9. Many women I have talked to highly regret their decision to not be independent. Most women who are abused and are forced to stay back and bear it can only regret not being independent of their husbands, in-laws, family, kids, or anyone.
8. Many women ask for tips to bring back a husband who is low in character, has relations with other women, disrespects his wife, and abuses her. "Give me tips to get him back and make him love me." It's like asking to purify a handful of wheat that fell into dirty, muddy water. Why so much weakness? Why such a big compromise with your self-respect and integrity? Why this blind faith that the person would change altogether? Marriage is an alliance of two equal people; in such cases, morally, there's no marriage left. Focus on your life and independence instead of expecting miracles and seeking the love of a characterless culprit.
7. The guy must be taller than me. I don't want to marry a short guy. Really, what's the sense of it? How would his height make your life easy, or would you feel too weak and need physical protection?
6. Some suppressed women who suffered for years wish the same for other women. "You shouldn't if I couldn't earn," she says, "and you shouldn't if I couldn't pick my life partner. "This revelation is shocking and sadistic.
5. Their dreams, interests, and passions are slowly killed throughout childhood. Stay inside; don't act like a boy; don't act like a prostitute; do girly things; don't care much about studies; don't interact with men; you aren’t strong enough to go alone anywhere. Slowly and steadily, a normal human is made weak and vulnerable, so that they fear stepping outside or pursuing goals.
4. "Prove your love by sleeping with me, or else I shall break up with you." Following blackmail, suicide, breakups, and cheating, this is a common statement. This is a trap. Never fall for it.
3. A woman's periods are frustrating, painful, and irritating. Feeling irritated, frustrated, and angry is common and genuine. A little support, empathy, or a "soft corner" for that time of the month is highly appreciated by most, especially from family.
Similar to point number 2, many girls and women don't want to be married to a guy who earns less or is equal to them. Again, promoting patriarchy, considering oneself weak, not relying on oneself, and expecting domination Never have this attitude; it makes you weak and proves you weak.
2. Many times, in cases of abuse, physical fights, major disputes, a husband's death, or divorce, parents refuse to accept the daughter back into the family. She is expected to compromise for the sake of her parents' societal image or their poor financial condition. They may have promised to be there for her and made her dependent and weak in return, but they strictly refused in her hour of need—yes, her real parents. This further strengthens the notion: Stay independent and rely only on yourself.
instances of bad touches and behavior by family members. Sadly, we stop women from going out of the house, citing safety reasons, but most rape cases involve family members or known people. A woman must be particular and observant, and parents must be particular in judging, identifying, and noticing such acts even if your child is a boy.
1. Blackmailing by parents to not become independent "We will give our lives if you study, work, or make a career." Tomorrow, they will disown you for not compromising with an abuser.
A partner losing interest after being in a relationship for some time clearly indicates his craving is solely for her beauty, which ought to be temporary. He promises to fight the entire world, but when he gets bored, he types "Parents won't agree to intercaste" before blocking her.
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